SPARE THE ROD, TALK THE TALK...
And avoid raising up a brat.
That's right.This is THE way of parenting - not through absolute indulgence nor through violence & dominant ruling by the iron hand.
Not through manipulation but through love at its purest.
Someone once said that the greatest invention on Earth is the air-conditioner.
& I heartily agree with this statement.
Another famous statement of such is chocolate being the Earth's greatest discovery.
HAIL to that!!!
How about the worst invention on Earth?
The cane, in my opinion.
& how about the thing which I advocate most?
Skin the person who invented the worst invention on Earth, gouge out his/her eyes, burn all of his/her hair, rub his/her body with salt & spices & other condiments, then fry in boiling hot oil.
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Violence under the disguise of so-called "discipline".
That's downright despicable & shameful.
Imagine a married man purchasing a claw hammer & telling the shopkeeper with the air of a long-suffering discipliarian, "Oh, between us men, you know how things are. We need to teach the womenfolk discipline from time to time least they get complacent, don't we?"
There would have been a massive brouhaha & public outcry!
The AWARE would interfere, the police & leading authorities would be called in, the PPO (Personal Protection Order) would be implemented, & the Dengue Fever mania would be kicked out of the headlines.
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Let's us drift off no further. Back to the Earth's worst invention.
At times, I've wondered who is the idiot sicko of an inventor.
A real sadist, definitely.
How could anyone on Earth come up with such a device to inflict pain on another fellow being?
"I love my child. That's why I use the cane. I'm a parent too, don't you think i feel the pain in my heart?"
Yea, sure. You sure do love your child.
TWISTED LOVE, that is.
"Actions speak louder than words."
It's all bull.
Just search your heart & admit that you're a big bully who is too selfish to spend time & efforts on your young ones whom you so claim to love.
Yes, in case you're wondering (& I know that you are), I've have had my fair share of the cane in my younger days.
& no, it did not leave me deranged enough to loathe the cane so much.
It's more of the brutality & violence behind it that lead me to pen my two-cents worth.
It's the principle of "Actions speak louder than words. Using the cane is a more effective way of getting my message across."
I say you're just lazy.
Then don't be a parent.
Using the cane is just taking a short-cut in bringing up a child.
It's a mentality of, "I'm busy to do the talk, let my trustworthy cane do the communication instead."
See, twisted love.
Too busy? Then don't bother wasting your time concieving & giving birth.
Be merciful for once.
It's been said that a child's brain is like a bank.
You get back what you've put in years later, plus interest.
You know what I think?
A child's brain is more of a sponge, if you ask me.Good or bad, harmful or beneficial, they absorb everything & grow laden with weight.
Why bother bringing a life into this world only to add misery to it?
No one on Earth deserves substandard love.
I'd rather settle for none rather than having to compromise & accept love that's dysfunctional, incomplete, & of inferior standards.
Love requires much efforts.
People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.
You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
How can you claim to love your child if you can't even spare a bit of your time on him?
Don't bull.
& don't make me puke.
People always claim to "love" so-and-so, but have they paused for a brief moment & reflect on whether if they've done anything for them?
Talks are, afterall, empty.
Love without real communication is not love.
Simple as that.
& the best solution to problems is definitely communication, never violence.
Simple as that, too.
What then, do you think our throats & vocal cords are for?
Building a relationship calls for much efforts, maintaining one requires much more. How many relationships have you seen soar off awesome & graceful, only to crash & burn towards the end?
If you just want a punching bag to vent your anger on, channel it into fighting the war against the Aedes mosquitoes.
Or against another group of sadists - terrorists.
Pick on someone of your own size, instead of one who is just a young, ignorant, innocent, defenceless child. Don't ever inflict harm, be it mentally, psychologically, or even verbally, just because of your own lack of self-control.
& yes, anyone whom I catch practices the pathetic art of twisted love which i've been harping on in this blog entry would undoubtlessly earn a deep frown & a dirty look of obvious disdain from me blatantly.
Ditto.
And avoid raising up a brat.
That's right.This is THE way of parenting - not through absolute indulgence nor through violence & dominant ruling by the iron hand.
Not through manipulation but through love at its purest.
Someone once said that the greatest invention on Earth is the air-conditioner.
& I heartily agree with this statement.
Another famous statement of such is chocolate being the Earth's greatest discovery.
HAIL to that!!!
How about the worst invention on Earth?
The cane, in my opinion.
& how about the thing which I advocate most?
Skin the person who invented the worst invention on Earth, gouge out his/her eyes, burn all of his/her hair, rub his/her body with salt & spices & other condiments, then fry in boiling hot oil.
*****************************************************************
Violence under the disguise of so-called "discipline".
That's downright despicable & shameful.
Imagine a married man purchasing a claw hammer & telling the shopkeeper with the air of a long-suffering discipliarian, "Oh, between us men, you know how things are. We need to teach the womenfolk discipline from time to time least they get complacent, don't we?"
There would have been a massive brouhaha & public outcry!
The AWARE would interfere, the police & leading authorities would be called in, the PPO (Personal Protection Order) would be implemented, & the Dengue Fever mania would be kicked out of the headlines.
*****************************************************************
Let's us drift off no further. Back to the Earth's worst invention.
At times, I've wondered who is the idiot sicko of an inventor.
A real sadist, definitely.
How could anyone on Earth come up with such a device to inflict pain on another fellow being?
"I love my child. That's why I use the cane. I'm a parent too, don't you think i feel the pain in my heart?"
Yea, sure. You sure do love your child.
TWISTED LOVE, that is.
"Actions speak louder than words."
It's all bull.
Just search your heart & admit that you're a big bully who is too selfish to spend time & efforts on your young ones whom you so claim to love.
Yes, in case you're wondering (& I know that you are), I've have had my fair share of the cane in my younger days.
& no, it did not leave me deranged enough to loathe the cane so much.
It's more of the brutality & violence behind it that lead me to pen my two-cents worth.
It's the principle of "Actions speak louder than words. Using the cane is a more effective way of getting my message across."
I say you're just lazy.
Then don't be a parent.
Using the cane is just taking a short-cut in bringing up a child.
It's a mentality of, "I'm busy to do the talk, let my trustworthy cane do the communication instead."
See, twisted love.
Too busy? Then don't bother wasting your time concieving & giving birth.
Be merciful for once.
It's been said that a child's brain is like a bank.
You get back what you've put in years later, plus interest.
You know what I think?
A child's brain is more of a sponge, if you ask me.Good or bad, harmful or beneficial, they absorb everything & grow laden with weight.
Why bother bringing a life into this world only to add misery to it?
No one on Earth deserves substandard love.
I'd rather settle for none rather than having to compromise & accept love that's dysfunctional, incomplete, & of inferior standards.
Love requires much efforts.
People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.
You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
How can you claim to love your child if you can't even spare a bit of your time on him?
Don't bull.
& don't make me puke.
People always claim to "love" so-and-so, but have they paused for a brief moment & reflect on whether if they've done anything for them?
Talks are, afterall, empty.
Love without real communication is not love.
Simple as that.
& the best solution to problems is definitely communication, never violence.
Simple as that, too.
What then, do you think our throats & vocal cords are for?
Building a relationship calls for much efforts, maintaining one requires much more. How many relationships have you seen soar off awesome & graceful, only to crash & burn towards the end?
If you just want a punching bag to vent your anger on, channel it into fighting the war against the Aedes mosquitoes.
Or against another group of sadists - terrorists.
Pick on someone of your own size, instead of one who is just a young, ignorant, innocent, defenceless child. Don't ever inflict harm, be it mentally, psychologically, or even verbally, just because of your own lack of self-control.
& yes, anyone whom I catch practices the pathetic art of twisted love which i've been harping on in this blog entry would undoubtlessly earn a deep frown & a dirty look of obvious disdain from me blatantly.
Ditto.
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